{"id":6011,"date":"2021-09-14T17:54:27","date_gmt":"2021-09-14T17:54:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/?p=6011"},"modified":"2025-08-05T17:14:41","modified_gmt":"2025-08-05T17:14:41","slug":"just-for-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/just-for-today\/","title":{"rendered":"Just for Today"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>The Al-anon Just for Today Prayer, the pictures are from a free to use source &#8230;<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Just for today<\/strong> I will try to live through this day only, and not tackle all my problems at once. I can do something for twelve hours that would appall me if I felt I had to keep it up for a lifetime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Just for today<\/span><\/strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\"> I will be happy. This <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">assumes to be true what Abraham Lincoln <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">said, that \u201cMost folks are as happy as they <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">make up their minds to be.\u201d <\/span><br role=\"presentation\"><br role=\"presentation\"><strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Just for today <\/span><\/strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">I will adjust myself to what <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">is, and not try to adjust everything to my <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">own desires. I will take my \u201cluck\u201d as it <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">comes, and fit myself to it. <\/span><br role=\"presentation\"><br role=\"presentation\"><strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Just for today<\/span><\/strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\"> I will try to strengthen my <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">mind. I will study. I will learn something <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">useful. I will not be a mental loafer. I will <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">read something that requires effort, <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">thought and concentration. <\/span><br role=\"presentation\"><br role=\"presentation\"><strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Just for today<\/span><\/strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\"> I will exercise my soul in <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">three ways: I will do somebody a good turn, <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">and not get found out; if anyone knows of <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">it, it will not count. I will do at least two <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">things I don\u2019t want to do \u2013 just for <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">exercise. I will not show anyone that my <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">feelings are hurt; they may be hurt, but <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">today I will not show it. <\/span><br role=\"presentation\"><br role=\"presentation\"><strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Just for today<\/span><\/strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\"> I will be agreeable. I will <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">look as well as I can, dress becomingly, keep <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">my voice low, be courteous, criticize not one <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">bit. I won\u2019t find fault with anything, nor try <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">to improve or regulate anybody but myself. <\/span><br role=\"presentation\"><br role=\"presentation\"><strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Just for today<\/span><\/strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\"> I will have a program. I may <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">not follow it exactly, but I will have it. I will <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">save myself from two pests: hurry and <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">indecision. <\/span><br role=\"presentation\"><br role=\"presentation\"><strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Just for today<\/span><\/strong><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\"> I will have a quiet half hour <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">all by myself and relax. During this half <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">hour, sometime, I will try to get a better <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">perspective of my life. <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Just for today<\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\"> I will I will be unafraid. <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Especially I will not be afraid to notice <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">what is beautiful and to believe that as I <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">give to the world, so the world will give to <\/span><span dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">me.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u2018Just For Today\u2019 is published by the General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous in Great Britain and does not belong to this site. I believe that the original attribution is to either Frank Crane (Boston Globe, 1921) or Sybil F. Partridge (1925) and was approved for AA publication in 1978.<\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/al-anon.org\/pdf\/M10.pdf\"><em>It is now also available from an Al-anon site. <\/em><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I also felt the need to reproduce the <strong>Letter from the Alcoholic<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>I am an alcoholic. I need your help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t lecture, blame or scold me. You wouldn&#8217;t be angry with me for having cancer or diabetes. Alcoholism is a disease, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t pour out my liquor; it&#8217;s just a waste because I can always find ways of getting more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t let me provoke your anger. If you attack me verbally or physically, you will only confirm my bad opinion abut myself. I hate myself enough already.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t let your love and anxiety for me lead you into doing what I ought to do for myself. If you assume my responsibilities, you make my failure to assume them permanent. My sense of guilt will be increased, and you will feel resentful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t accept my promises. I&#8217;ll promise anything to get off the hook. But the nature of my illness prevents me from keeping my promises, even though I mean them at the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t make empty threats. Once you have made a decision, stick to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t believe everything I tell you; it may be a lie. Denial of reality is a symptom of my illness. Moreover, I&#8217;m likely to lose respect for those I can fool too easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t let me take advantage of you or exploit you in any way. Love cannot exist for long without the dimension of justice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t cover up for me or try in any way to spare me the consequences of my drinking. Don&#8217;t lie for me, pay my bills, or meet my obligations. It may avert or reduce the very crisis that would prompt me to seek help. I can continue to deny that I have a drinking problem as long as you provide an automatic escape for the consequences of my drinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Above all, do learn all you can about alcoholism and your role in relation to me. Go to open AA meetings when you can. Attend Al-Anon meetings regularly, read the literature and keep in touch with Al-Anon members. They&#8217;re the people who can help you see the whole situation clearly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your Alcoholic<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I got this from <a href=\"https:\/\/alanon.activeboard.com\/t56610233\/open-letter-from-the-alcoholic\/?w_r=1696088089\">a bulleting board<\/a>., it is published in the pamphlet, &#8220;3 views of Al-Anon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Al-anon Just for Today Prayer, the pictures are from a free to use source &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6426,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","_share_on_mastodon":"0"},"categories":[21],"tags":[918],"class_list":["post-6011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-death","tag-life-death"],"share_on_mastodon":{"url":"","error":""},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/candle-Rpetersonhall-unsplash-w1024-cropped.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6011","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6011"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6011\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12794,"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6011\/revisions\/12794"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6426"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6011"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6011"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davelevy.info\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6011"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}